Simple ways to practice mannerism
To have good manners and etiquettes
So what?
ICYMI – Manner is defined as the “mode of action; way of performing or doing anything” and is the characteristic of how you act and behave. Being good mannered is the foundation to success in all aspects of life as you can benefit from good manners as a child and as an adult.
The last three posts discussed the importance of having manners. In this post, we will give you short and sharp ways that you can practice to be well-mannered and to show etiquette.
Simple little ways
- Say “please” with a smile whenever you ask someone to do something.
- Say “thank you” with a smile whenever someone does anything for you.
- Apologise when you’re at fault.
- Say “excuse me” or “pardon me” when you need to.
- Compliment others when you see an opportunity to do so.
- Share what you have.
- Treat others how THEY want to be treated.
- Make eye contact when you’re speaking or listening to someone.
- Don’t play loud music when others are around you.
- Remove your sunnies when you’re speaking to someone.
- Always RSVP to invitations.
- Pick up after your child or pet.
- Be on time. Or even better. Be early.
- Wait until everyone is served before you start eating.
- Keep personal belongings off the table. That includes phones.
- Dab your mouth before drinking.
- Call to say thank you.
My experience
As a father of 8 and 6 year olds, saying “please”, “thank you” and “excuse me” are embedded in everything we do. We do so because we consider ourselves well-mannered and want to display such behaviours to our kids. We even go as far as waiving at cars that give way when we’re crossing the street or let us go in front of them when we’re driving. It’s become an important aspect of our lives and our kids understand the importance, we get called out if we occasionally forget to be well-mannered.
What now?
- What are the habitual ways you act and behave that show mannerism or rudeness? Is there a particular reason why you act or behave in that way?
- How does it make you feel when someone shows mannerism towards you? Does it make you want to reciprocate and allow those around you to feel the same? If not, why not?